Love is a beautiful emotion. It holds the power to heal and transform lives. But the other side of love, which is the absence of love, can be quite destructive.

Some people find love early in life without having to struggle much in the dating pool, while some others go through cycles of failed and painful relationships for years before finding their best match.

Then there are people who choose to be single for life because they don’t want to risk getting hurt again.

Everyones story and journey is different but if love is still something you want, and you haven’t found someone to be with because of x and y reasons, I just want to encourage you to not lose hope.

It doesn’t matter how old you are, and where you are in life. Love can come at any given moment. You have to not let your past failed relationships and traumas be a barrier between you and love. Heal and work on yourself.

Do not care about societies expectations and pressures either. Feel comfortable in your decision instead of pleasing people. Do what works for you and remember that what you want exists, don’t settle for anything less.